21 Haziran 2019 Cuma

Temmuz 2018- Balat/ İSTANBUL

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25 Mayıs 2019 Cumartesi



WOMEN’S RIGHTS = HUMAN RIGHTS

Why we need rights for women?

Human rights should have been natal for everyone already. According to The Universal Declaration of Human Rights; “All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood.”[1]  But it is really hard to say that people who born free and equal are living equal.
It is quite weird to say that women still trying to be equal with men in that age. But this is unfortunately true.  Every gender is still struggling at least to be equal with men. The human mentioned by laws actually is white, heterosexual, cisgender, sovereign men in power relations. Because the rules, the system, the law have been constituted by these men and even every human –regardless their genders- are equal on paper we know that some of them are more equal than others.
The laws are not always implemented as required. One of the differences between men and women is women have unfair conditions only because they are women. Women still fighting for their rights which like; get paid the same amounts with men, protection from male violence or harassment, making their own decisions about their own bodies, accessing good child-care services, etc. We also know a lot of girls forced to marry at their early ages, a lot of girls who are not allowed to go to school, women have to be careful what to wear, women have to be careful which time to go out, women killed by their male partners, women raped by men… all around the world.
Examples are endless if we are talking about gender equality. Patriarchy is still successful in maintenance it’s effects almost in every society.  That’s why we need rights, especially for women.

Historical Process
In 1789 “The Declaration of the Rights of Man and of the Citizen[2] set by France's National Constituent Assembly. That was a human civil rights document from the French Revolution. When we consider this declaration we can say if you are not a citizen you don’t have the rights but also as the name suggests the citizens were only men. This declaration shows that if you don’t have the political rights you may not even have the basic human rights. For this reason, French activist, feminist, and playwright Olympe de Gouges published another declaration in 1791: Declaration of the Rights of Woman[3].  But instead of bringing gender equality, Gouges accused as treason because of this declaration. She was guillotined in Paris on the 3rd of November 1793. But this declaration influenced the revolution activists about feminism. “One year after its publication, in 1792, the keen observer of the French Revolution Mary Wollstonecraft published Vindication of the Rights of Woman.”[4]  Women started to struggle for speaking more.
 Although men talk about equality and social change, women who are half of society are ignored. But feminist activists continued to demand equal treatment from everyone. Feminists’ demands were clear and powerful but they weren’t taken into consideration on time. Women had to demand their rights especially like education for republic's "goodness". Because mothers should raise their sons as a good citizen and the sons would have joined the existence of the republic.
Women's struggle for political and social equality continued in the 19th and 20th centuries. On the other hand, women’s rights were assumed as they considered within general human rights. This further delayed the resolution of women's problems. But in 1970s feminist movement started being more common and people started being more sensitive about women rights. As a result of this, the United Nations submitted CEDAW to member countries’ signs in 1979. Cedaw; The Convention on the Elimination of all Forms of Discrimination Against Women[5] described as an international bill of rights for women.  Although over fifty countries have signed the convention they didn’t accept some articles in it. But through this convention, it accepted that present human rights are not contained women’s issues. And the concept of “human rights of women” began to take place in international legal documents more and more. This convention is one of the eight basic human rights conventions in the United Nations now. The number of states parties to the convention is 189 as of 2015.
The other important development for women rights’ recognition was The World Conference on Human Rights in 1993. This conference held by the United Nations in Vienna. It was the first human rights conference held since the end of the Cold War. “The conference did have an expansive view of human rights, with efforts made to highlight women's rights, indigenous peoples' rights, minority rights, and more in the context of universal political and economic rights. Women's rights, in particular, gained a strong and effective presence at the conference.” [6] The action program of Vienna recommended some reviews about unadmitted topics of the 1979 Convention. The Vienna Conference responded to the demands of women’s. It noted that governments and the UN have to ensure that women enjoyment fully and equally of all human rights.
In 2011 an agreement was signed about violence against women in Istanbul: The Council of Europe Convention on preventing and combating violence against women and domestic violence (also known as the Istanbul Convention). It was the first legally-binding agreement about violence against women and is focused on preventing domestic violence, protecting victims and prosecuting accused offenders. Turkey was the first country to sign and ratify to the convention in the following 33 signatory countries. The Convention came into force on 1 August 2014.
In the agreement, it was underlined that the main reason for the violence is inequality between women and men. Gender and gender-based violence also were defined in the convention. It aimed at the prevention of violence, protection of women from violence and to end the impunity of perpetrators.  “Gender: the socially constructed roles, behaviors, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for women and men. Gender-based violence against women: means "violence that is directed against a woman because she is a woman or that affects women disproportionately."”[7] 

Conclusion
These are important gains; however, violence against women and inequality is still didn’t last all around the world. Women's rights should recognize as human rights to stop gender infringement and discrimination at first. Violence against women is a violation of human rights. Violence may happen everywhere but the horrible thing is it happens mostly in the family which should be the safest place for women. Domestic violence is one of the most harmful things for women. Violence can happen in plenty of ways like verbal, physical, mental, economic, sexual, and social. The violence against women and the equality of genders are interrelated. We have to see and we have to solve these problems as an inseparable whole. Women also must take roles in positions as decision-makers more, not only as an exerciser. For this aim, women have to act with solidarity, they have to support each other in daily life and also organizationally.  They have to build a sisterhood like human right’s “brotherhood”. They have to resist against all kind of violence and all kind of domination. This is not a new struggle, it started with religions that say women are secondary and sinner. It continued with witch hunts which killing women who are trying to help for abortion and health care to other women. Women struggled for gaining citizenship and also gaining the right to vote for many years. They killed by men and sovereigns. Women believed that they are not able to do the same things with men. They accepted to being in their kitchens and taking care of children on their own. They believed that they have to be beautiful to impress men; they converted dolls which they played during their childhood. They learned what they shouldn’t do, not what they can do. Men always explain everything to women. And women continued practicing and teaching the men thoughts to other women. 
There is a massive shame on the men and on the history of women’s existence. Feminism is the most important way to stop all these irrationalities. And governments have to stop pursuing political and cultural attacks on women. Governments should bring permanent measures and solutions to violence against women. The rights for protection and supporting to women should have more sanction power. Women shouldn’t wait for it from men; they should take more responsibilities and more roles in governments and laws.  Struggling for women should go on everywhere until the genders lose their meaning in societies. We should destroy the rules of all genders for real equality. “One is not born but rather becomes, a woman.”